a view from my side..

~ thought bubble ~

HAPPY 2011!
WOOOOHOOOO!!

Another year to have great adventures!

Let's go!!
rant@ 1/17/11 :P

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~ black&blue ~

~ looking out ~

~ cool stuff ~
~Improv Everywhere~
~Letters to Crushes~
~Travesty Clothing~
~Jiro's Deviantart~
~Post Secret~
~Newgrounds~
~30-sec Bunnies Theater Library~
~The IMPOSSIBLE quiz~
~Yahoo Games~
~Serious Shorts~
~What does your name mean?~
~http://youdiehard.blogspot.com~
~http://www.pinoyblogosphere.com~
~SA on B :)~

~ friends ~
~amelie colobong~
~arik abu~
~arnel cosme~
~avis alibuyog~
~carmela ugay~
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~ et. al. ~
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~jim paredes~
~neil gaiman~

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~ about.. ~

UNDER CONSTRUCTION.. sorry for being a lazy b*tch. lol.

I'm stuck in a different time zone as of the moment. ;)

--isabel--atebel--isa--bel--bei--

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~ how would meyer write edward cullen taking a dump? ~
~ the meantime boy :) ~
~ 7 ~
~ goofs for the twilight movie :P ~
~ 8 ~
~ love-hate relationship ~
~ here we go again ~
~ questions. ~
~ you never really can tell, eh? ~

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~ wishing on a star ~

reason
happiness :)
know and do what I really want
not be afraid
~~a music box :)~~
~~scream out loud~~
~~graduate :p~~

Credits
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udub
Thank You! :)

~ what it really means :) ~

just an out-of-the-blue thought regarding having a relationship.

even when i was younger (starting as early as grade school, i think), my parents have always been open to us. we talk a lot about a lot..

history, politics, current events, "kanto-boy stories", crushes, generation comparisons (their time vs. our time), money, family matters, love, sex, violence, morality and anything and everything else under the sun...

anyway, due to a certain events...i was reminded about a little something my dad had said or used to say..

my sister and i once asked (as kids) if we could already have boyfriends (i'm not sure if we DID ask, but it came up in a conversation back then, hihi

) after our laughter, my dad's reply,

"sabihin niyo muna sa akin kung anung ibig sabihin ng boyfriend...pag nagawa niyo yun, sige, pwede na."

so being the oh-so-innocent child i was

, i thought my dad wanted and demanded for a definition of what a boyfriend is (i think i even looked at the dictionary, haha! SORRY NA AH!

). i didn't really want a boyfriend then (i don't think i did) i just wanted to see if my parents approved of us having one already, if and when

(haha!).

so there was my dilemma, finding a definition of boyfriend that was good enough for my father and mother (although i'd like to believe mom really didn't mind that much, haha!

)..good enough for me to be allowed to have one, hahaha!

well, a few years later, i still didn't have my good enough definition. well, i really didn't think dad would ask, "before i approve of your relationship, isabel, could you please define what a boyfriend is?" if and when i had brought somebody home to meet my parents

hahaha. well, i was only glad (back then) that i didn't need to bring anyone..coz there was really no one..and i was just enjoying my life with great friends and was cruising along the very exciting (sarcastic

) world of school work. hahaha!

well, it was only recently when i finally got the real essence of my father's statement (as a result of a very..erm, very complicated circumstances..

) he wasn't asking us to really define what a boyfriend is..he wanted us to realize first what it meant to have a boyfriend..what having a relationship really means and all the responsibilities that came along with it..hahaha.

yeah, silly me, right? but i'd like to think i just hadn't really given it much thought that's why the realization came in a bit late

(defensive!! hahaha!)

so there..hmmm..so i got the riddle..so does this mean i get the

and i'm good to go? HAHAHA.

i really don't know. i don't think i am.

but well, what happens, happens. in time..

hahaha.

~ isabel ~ posted @
Thursday, December 04, 2008,8:38 PM

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